(DDM) – Renowned journalist and former presidential aide Dr. Reuben Abati has penned a heartfelt tribute to his wife, Kikelomo Abati, describing her as the embodiment of love, strength, and true happiness.
Diaspora Digital Media (DDM) gathered that Abati made the touching remarks in a lengthy post shared via his official Instagram page on Thursday, in celebration of his wife’s 46th birthday.
In his message, Abati referred to Kikelomo as his “jewel” and “sunrise,” expressing deep admiration for her intellect, discipline, and unwavering support throughout their marriage.
“Happy birthday to my Jewel. You are one of the few women who challenge me intellectually and push me to be more, not because of your God-given charm but because of your drive, discipline, and strength of purpose,” Abati wrote.
He continued: “You’re never afraid to roll up your sleeves and do the work. Impressive!”
Reflecting on the journey of marriage, Abati recalled the wise counsel of his godfather, Prince Adelusi, who once told him that “A happy man marries the girl he loves, but the happier man loves the woman he marries.”
According to Abati, that statement has shaped his understanding of love, commitment, and true contentment.
He emphasized that real joy in marriage is not found in material things but in shared values, emotional connection, and mutual respect.
“True happiness doesn’t sit on the shelf; it comes from within. And truly, with you, I’ve found that genuine happiness,” he added.
Abati expressed gratitude for his wife’s patience, compassion, and resilience, noting that her presence has been a source of peace and stability in his life.
“Thank you, Kiki, for all you do. I am blessed to have such a kind, industrious, and compassionate soul as my life partner,” he said warmly.
In an emotional conclusion to the tribute, Abati wrote: “My love for you will endure until my final breath. You’re not just my sunrise… you are my sun, Iyawo mi. Happy 46th birthday, my oyinbo.”
The post quickly drew thousands of reactions from fans, colleagues, and admirers, who flooded his comment section with congratulatory messages and admiration for the couple’s enduring love story.
Many praised Abati’s openness and romantic expression, calling his message “a masterclass in affection” and “a reminder that genuine love still exists in modern marriages.”
Abati, a veteran journalist and media scholar, has remained one of Nigeria’s most respected public figures, known for his eloquence, emotional depth, and sharp political analysis.
His latest reflection on love and marriage adds a personal touch to a man more commonly known for his intellectual rigor and national commentary.
For many Nigerians, Abati’s message to Kikelomo is more than just a birthday note, it is a timeless lesson on the meaning of love, partnership, and happiness in marriage.