Exclusive: Former Choir Member Levels Explosive Allegations Against Pastor Chris Okafor, Claims Years of Sexual Exploitation and Forced Abortions — DDM NEWS Investigation
A fresh wave of controversy has engulfed popular Lagos-based cleric, Pastor Chris Okafor, following disturbing allegations made by a woman who claims to be a former member of his church choir. In a deeply emotional and widely circulated video, the woman alleges that she was sexually exploited by the pastor over several years and pressured into terminating four pregnancies during what she described as a secret and manipulative relationship. While the claims remain unverified and Pastor Okafor has yet to respond publicly, the revelations have ignited intense debate across social media platforms and within religious circles nationwide.
DDM NEWS reports that the woman, whose identity has not been independently verified and who has not released her full personal details publicly, narrated her experience in graphic detail, alleging a pattern of spiritual manipulation, abuse of authority, and emotional trauma that she says has shaped her life irreversibly.
Allegations Rooted in the Church Altar
According to the woman’s account, her alleged ordeal began while she was actively serving as a choir member in the church. She said the initial contact was framed as a divine encounter during a church service, when Pastor Okafor reportedly singled her out before the congregation under the pretense of delivering a prophecy.
She claimed that what appeared to be a spiritual moment quickly took a troubling turn when the pastor allegedly removed the microphone mid-service and began asking personal questions about her thoughts and feelings toward him. She further alleged that a resident pastor was instructed to escort her to Pastor Okafor’s office immediately after the service.
“That very day, he gave me a brown envelope and told me to go home,” she recounted in the video. “He said he would call me.”
The woman suggested that at the time, she saw nothing suspicious in the encounter, explaining that she trusted the pastor implicitly and believed she was receiving genuine spiritual guidance.
Alleged Relationship and Claims of Manipulation
The former choir member alleged that the situation escalated significantly in 2015, when Pastor Okafor allegedly summoned her again, this time claiming to have received a revelation about her personal life. According to her, he told her that she was in a relationship with a man he described as “occultic” and insisted that she must end it for her spiritual safety.
She further alleged that after making these claims, the pastor left the room briefly and returned with ₦50,000 and two apples, allegedly telling her that he liked her and wanted them to begin a romantic relationship.
“I reminded him that he was married,” she said. “He told me to forget about that.”
The woman claimed that she was emotionally conflicted but felt spiritually trapped, describing how the authority of the pulpit and her reverence for him made it difficult to resist. She alleged that the relationship soon turned sexual and continued secretly for several years.
Claims of Multiple Pregnancies and Forced Abortions
Perhaps the most disturbing aspect of her allegations centers on her claim that the relationship resulted in multiple pregnancies, each of which she says she was pressured to terminate. According to her account, the first pregnancy occurred around 2016 or 2017.
“I called him to tell him,” she said. “At first he said we would keep it, but two days later he called and told me I should abort it.”
She went on to claim that the pattern repeated itself several times, alleging that she underwent four abortions in total. She described the experiences as emotionally devastating and psychologically scarring, saying she felt isolated, ashamed, and spiritually confused throughout the ordeal.
DDM NEWS notes that these claims, if proven, would raise serious ethical, moral, and potentially criminal questions, particularly given the power imbalance inherent in a pastor-congregant relationship. However, it must be emphasized that no medical records, legal documents, or independent corroboration have yet been presented to substantiate the claims.
Social Media Erupts, Reactions Pour In
Since the video surfaced online, reactions have been swift and polarized. Many social media users expressed shock and outrage, calling for a thorough investigation into the allegations and urging religious authorities and law enforcement agencies to intervene.
Others urged caution, emphasizing the importance of due process and warning against rushing to judgment based solely on unverified claims. Some supporters of Pastor Okafor questioned the woman’s motives, while others pointed to a broader pattern of allegations against religious leaders as evidence of systemic abuse within some religious institutions.
A Pattern of Controversies?
The latest allegations add to a growing list of controversies surrounding Pastor Okafor. In recent years, Nollywood actress Doris Ogala publicly accused the cleric of inappropriate conduct, claims which also generated significant public debate. Additionally, another woman has previously surfaced claiming to be his former wife, alleging mistreatment during their relationship.
While none of these allegations have resulted in a criminal conviction, critics argue that the recurring nature of such claims warrants closer scrutiny. Supporters of the cleric, however, maintain that he has been the target of smear campaigns designed to tarnish his reputation and undermine his ministry.
Silence from the Cleric and Church Authorities
As of the time of filing this report, Pastor Chris Okafor has not issued a public response to the latest allegations. Church officials have also remained largely silent, neither confirming nor denying the claims.
Efforts by DDM NEWS to reach representatives of the church for comment were unsuccessful. The absence of an official response has only intensified speculation and fueled further debate, with many questioning whether internal mechanisms exist within religious institutions to address allegations of abuse transparently.
Legal and Ethical Implications
Legal experts contacted by DDM NEWS note that allegations of sexual exploitation, coercion, and forced abortion, if substantiated, could carry serious criminal consequences. However, they also emphasized that allegations alone do not constitute proof and that any investigation must be guided by evidence, witness testimony, and due process.
Ethically, the case raises profound questions about the abuse of spiritual authority and the vulnerability of congregants who place absolute trust in religious leaders. Human rights advocates argue that such cases underscore the need for stronger safeguards within religious organizations to protect members, particularly young women, from exploitation.
The Broader Conversation on Faith and Accountability
Beyond the individuals involved, the controversy has reignited a broader national conversation about accountability within religious spaces. Nigeria remains one of the most religious countries in the world, with millions placing immense faith in pastors, imams, and spiritual leaders.
Critics argue that this reverence, when unchecked, can create environments ripe for abuse. Advocates are increasingly calling for clearer reporting mechanisms, independent oversight bodies, and education within faith communities to help members recognize and report inappropriate conduct.
Allegations, Not Established Facts
It is important to stress that the claims made by the former choir member remain allegations. No court has ruled on the matter, no law enforcement agency has announced an investigation, and Pastor Chris Okafor has not been convicted of any wrongdoing related to these claims.
DDM NEWS maintains that fairness, accuracy, and responsibility must guide public discourse, particularly in cases involving serious allegations that can irreparably damage reputations and lives.
What Happens Next?
As the video continues to circulate and public pressure mounts, attention will likely turn to whether authorities or regulatory bodies will step in to examine the claims. For now, the woman’s testimony stands as a painful personal narrative, while the accused cleric remains silent.
Whether this controversy fades into the background or becomes a turning point in the demand for accountability within Nigeria’s religious institutions remains to be seen. What is clear, however, is that the allegations have struck a nerve, forcing uncomfortable questions about power, faith, and the responsibilities of those who lead from the pulpit.
DDM NEWS will continue to monitor developments closely and provide updates as more information becomes available.