Nollywood actor Ibrahim Chatta has ignited conversations across social media after sharing his views on the role of men in relationships and marriage.
According to the respected Yoruba film star, one of a man’s core responsibilities in life is to provide for and take care of women especially his wife.
“One of men’s responsibilities in this life is to take care of women. When you take care of your woman, you prosper,” Chatta stated.
He clarified that his stance is not rooted in insecurity or opposition to gender equality. The actor emphasized that he has no issue with a woman being financially successful, even wealthier than her husband.
“I am not against equality or a woman being richer than me,” he explained.
However, Chatta added that regardless of a wife’s wealth or assets, he would still prefer to lead financially in certain areas of the home. He noted that even if his wife owned an estate, he would rather have the family live in a house he personally built. He also expressed that he would want to handle responsibilities such as paying the children’s school fees and providing food for the household.
His comments have triggered mixed reactions.
Supporters argue that Chatta is simply expressing traditional values a belief system where a man takes pride in being the primary provider. Many say his perspective reflects cultural expectations deeply rooted in African society, where masculinity is often tied to responsibility, provision, and leadership within the family.
Others, however, believe relationships should be built on partnership rather than financial dominance. Critics suggest that modern marriages thrive on collaboration, where both partners contribute based on capacity rather than gender roles.
Still, Chatta’s statement appears less about control and more about personal pride and fulfillment. For him, providing for his family is not about competition it is about purpose.
The conversation highlights a broader societal debate: In today’s world, where women are increasingly financially independent and successful, what does provision look like in marriage? Is it about money, leadership, emotional support or all of the above?
Whether one agrees or disagrees, Ibrahim Chatta’s remarks have once again placed the spotlight on evolving gender dynamics and the balance between tradition and modern equality in relationships.
And as the debate continues, one thing is clear, discussions about roles in marriage are far from over.
