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Death is the greatest equalizer ~ by Basil Odilim

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Basil Odilim Enwegbara

One day, our journey on this earth will come to an end, just as it will for everyone. When that moment comes, the stories told about us will reflect the lives we touched, the good we did, and perhaps the things we failed to do right.

Today, the remarkable deeds of Jimmy Carter stand as a shining example—his commitment to peace, service to humanity, and humility in leadership–are being remembered and celebrated.

Yet, life, in all its brevity, often finds us overwhelmed by selfish pursuits and fleeting ambitions. Whether you are white or black, poor or rich, king or subject, death serves as the great equalizer, humbling us all beneath the earth.

It spares no one, reminding us of the fleeting nature of our titles, wealth, and status, and urging us to focus on the legacy we leave behind.

What is life, if not an opportunity to rise above narrow interests and embrace a greater purpose? Whether we acknowledge it or not, the day will come when we join our ancestors, leaving behind only the legacy of how we chose to live.

That Devil That Endlessly Drives Us All

Human nature often draws us into the subtle art of comparison—a constant measuring of our worth against others. Many find validation in believing they are better than you, eagerly searching for traits or behaviors in you that confirm their perceived superiority. In the same vein, you may unconsciously believe you are better than others, focusing on their actions to affirm what you view as flawed or abnormal.

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This cycle of comparison is deeply ingrained in our interactions, serving as both a motivator and a mirror to our insecurities. It has the potential to inspire ambition and personal growth, yet it also underscores the subjectivity of judgment. What one person deems a flaw, another might celebrate as a strength, reminding us how much our perspectives are shaped by personal biases and life experiences.

It is often said that if you cook for the public, there will never be enough to satisfy everyone. But if the public feeds you, their provisions will seem endless. This reflects a simple yet profound truth: no matter how much you give or how hard you try, it is impossible to meet everyone’s expectations or demands. This understanding offers a crucial perspective on the futility of trying to gain universal approval and the importance of embracing imperfection.

However, this tendency to compare and seek validation is a double-edged sword. When balanced, it can propel us toward self-improvement, but unchecked, it risks breeding envy, resentment, and feelings of inadequacy. The real challenge is learning to navigate this dynamic—acknowledging our shared imperfections without allowing comparisons to erode our sense of self-worth or empathy for others.

Perhaps the most profound realization is this: understanding that we all engage in this process can foster humility and compassion. Instead of striving to prove ourselves better than others, we can redirect our energy toward becoming the best versions of ourselves. By embracing our shared imperfections and vulnerabilities, we transform comparison into a source of connection rather than division.

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In this understanding lies the beauty of humanity: it is our differences, imperfections, and shared struggles that make us whole.

Basil Odilim Enwegbara is a public affairs commentator.


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