Nigerian writer and life coach Solomon Buchi has sparked widespread conversation online following a strong statement on parenting and gender roles.
In his widely circulated message, Buchi urged parents to raise boys with essential life skills, particularly cooking, stressing that domestic responsibility should not be left to women alone.
“Raise your boys to know how to cook so that when they grow up and get married, they won’t be asking their wives to leave whatever they’re doing to come home and feed their child. There’s nothing cute about incompetence,” he said.
His statement has resonated with many who believe that teaching boys how to cook fosters independence, responsibility, and equality in relationships.
Supporters argue that in today’s world where both partners often work—shared domestic duties are necessary for a healthy and balanced home.
However, the comment has also drawn mixed reactions. While some praised his perspective as progressive and practical, others argued that household roles should be determined by mutual understanding between partners rather than societal pressure.
The conversation has reignited debates around gender roles, parenting styles, and the importance of raising self-sufficient individuals regardless of gender.
As discussions continue, many agree that equipping children with basic life skills remains a crucial part of preparing them for adulthood.
