Blogger Tosin Silverdam has reignited the controversy surrounding Nurse Sugar’s failed marriage after sharing a video he claims shows the content creator physically attacking her former husband.
The development comes shortly after Nurse Sugar opened up about her marriage during an emotional interview with Ifedayo Agoro on Diary of Naija Girls, where she spoke extensively about what she described as years of emotional and physical abuse.
During the interview, Nurse Sugar alleged that her former husband repeatedly asked for threesomes during their intimate moments, saying that he would make the request almost every time they were together.
She also alleged that her traditional wedding was the most humiliating experience of her marriage and revealed that her former husband had allegedly become engaged to another woman while they were still married.
Nurse Sugar became emotional while discussing the alleged abuse, saying the experience left her feeling powerless and questioning her own worth. She also said she had remained in the marriage despite the difficulties because she believed she could somehow make the relationship work.
However, the narrative took another turn when Tosin Silverdam began questioning Nurse Sugar’s account of the marriage.
In a video shared by the blogger, Nurse Sugar can reportedly be heard telling her former husband not to record her, while the man is heard shouting during the confrontation.
Silverdam alleged that the footage shows Nurse Sugar pouring hot water on her husband during the incident. The blogger presented the footage as evidence that the former husband also experienced mistreatment during the marriage.
The video surfaced after Nurse Sugar addressed a separate altercation during her interview, where she admitted that she once held her former husband by his shirt but maintained that she did not hit him.
Silverdam’s latest post has therefore triggered another wave of debate online, with social media users divided over the competing accounts from the former couple.
Some commenters questioned whether the newly circulated footage captured the complete incident, arguing that a short recording may not reveal what happened immediately before the confrontation. Others said the footage should not be dismissed and called for both sides of the story to be considered.
The controversy has also brought renewed attention to Silverdam’s earlier posts about Nurse Sugar’s marriage. In one post, the blogger questioned how long the marriage had lasted after discovering that the relationship had already ended, while another post suggested that the story had another side that had not initially been told publicly.
Nurse Sugar’s marriage reportedly began with a court wedding before the couple later held a larger wedding celebration. Her recent interview brought the relationship back into public conversation, particularly because of her allegations about what she experienced during the union.
With Silverdam now presenting footage that he says contradicts part of her account, the online debate has shifted from simply discussing Nurse Sugar’s allegations to examining the competing narratives surrounding the marriage.
Neither the viral footage nor the various social media claims independently establishes the full circumstances of the relationship or the specific events captured in the recording. Both sides of the story remain contested, and the former couple have not publicly provided a complete, independently verified account of every incident being discussed online.
