Nigerian actor Deyemi has sparked conversation online after sharing his perspective on masculinity, emotional resilience, and how he handles personal struggles.
In a recent statement, the actor explained that men are often conditioned to endure challenges silently, describing it as part of their natural makeup.
“I’m a man, we’re built to chest things. If you punch a man, he has the ability to absorb it,” he said.
Deyemi went on to reveal that when he faces difficulties, his first instinct is not to confide in his wife. Instead, he prefers to seek guidance from his therapist or mentor before involving his partner.
“Whenever I’m going through things, my wife is not the first person I call. I’ll rather call my therapist or mentor, but when things get really hard, that’s when I turn to my wife,” he added.
His remarks have generated mixed reactions on social media. While some people agree with his approach, arguing that men need structured support systems like mentorship and therapy, others believe emotional openness with a spouse should come first in a marriage.
The conversation has also reignited broader discussions about traditional expectations placed on men, particularly the idea that they must always be strong and emotionally self-reliant.
Supporters of Deyemi’s view say his honesty highlights the importance of mental health resources and safe spaces where men can express vulnerability without judgment. Critics, however, argue that prioritizing external support over one’s partner may raise questions about emotional intimacy in relationships.
Despite differing opinions, Deyemi’s statement has once again brought attention to evolving conversations around masculinity, mental health, and the dynamics of modern relationships.
